They say everything happens for a reason. For the last few weeks, I’ve been having epiphany after epiphany. Some have been small and by choice, others were force fed to me with a big metal spoon. Some of the people you befriend online and never met, or even if you have met them, aren’t as loyal and friendly as they might portray. So I won’t beat a dead horse. No sleep lost, no shots returned after you slandered my name, no feelings involved whatsoever. Men and women. Friends, exes, even new ‘potential.’ *brushes shoulders off* I’ve been off that chasing, remember the last couple of posts? Yeah, THAT. Maybe some soul searching, internal reflection, alone time was needed. I see everything in a new light. The exes I kept talking to, no mas. The online popularity I thought was important, no mas. The small/petty things things/people I used to get upset over, you guessed it…no mas. So if everything happens for a reason, maybe that force feed wasn’t so bad after all.

Things that make you go hmm.